Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Still Waiting

Yesterday we received an update from our adoption agency....29 months from LID is the expected delay! Ouch. When we began the process the wait was 6-9 month......
Really don't know what to make of this. It is even harder for DH. He's not used to "disappointments" such as this. I am at a loss as to what to even think. I ask myself if we should even continue in this program? Yesterday we figured out that at this rate, we wouldn't be getting our referral until May of next year. It is inconceivable to me really-I just cannot fathom waiting that long....

sound frustrated don't I? I have coped in the past because I just put it out of my mind and go on about my daily life, but now it's becoming harder and harder to do that.
Mother's day is around the corner and soon it will be father's day-I've experienced being a parent, but what about O? He really is feeling it! I wish there was something I could DO, this process seems so unfair.

1 comment:

Leah Mei said...

Hi Lourdes, glad to hear from you. I know the wait is terrible. Our log-in date was October 19, 2006, but God had other plans and found us a child with special needs (very very mild)and here we are. You dont have too much to go as I am traveling with a group whose LID is January 12, 2006.

Hope to keep in touch,